Primp it!

So, I’m going to be a little naughty today, but after reading this post, I have to say that there is so much that goes into having sex with a guy. Obviously, for anatomical reasons, me having sex with a guy really takes some planning. since, I’m the bottom in any relations I have with guys, spontaneous sex is kind of a misnomer. I don’t want to go into a lot of details, because it’s a bit gross to think of it, but there is some preparation involved to prepare to give myself over – eating right, cleaning, shaving, moisturizing, lubrication, etc., etc.

Wow, and now I’m remembering how long it really has been for me.

Maybe I’ll delete this…Maybe it’s not exactly appropriate for my blog, but I did like the author of the linked post expressing the care and presentation a woman needs to do for her man. And I wanted to point out, that it’s something I have to do to.


15 thoughts on “Primp it!”

  1. You know you are so right about that.. I get so conscious of my whole self when I’m thinking of getting with that someone..

    And I do get paranoid..
    so spontaneously is not my fortes either..

    So I’m with you tarnished…

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    1. Don’t get me wrong, I love spontaneous passion. There is no feeling like being swept up in the moment, the kissing, the petting, the heavy breathing…
      Oh gawd…I’m exciting myself just thinking about it…
      But, for me to have sex with a guy? I can’t just do it…I require preparation for a couple days in advance.

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  2. Some of us do not have to worry about such things. Spontaneity? Preparation? Sex? Hmm. I am so disenchanted and disenfranchised, I don’t dwell on the trivialities of sex. I don’t even bother with self-gratification.

    Being a useless entity has its upsides, I suppose.

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      1. Well don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. I’m not overly keen o sex in general anyway unless it’s with the person I’m deeply in love with. It has everything to do with that (for me), rather than gender or genitalia.

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  3. Reblogged this on Tarnished Soul and commented:

    Today, I had an email from someone asking me how I “did it with guys”? And I’m not sure there is really an accurate way to describe it in detail (not to mention how inappropriate it is to ask), but I decided to reblog this post as a bit of an introduction to the concept. I’m not one to avoid questions, however, because it allows me to understand myself better.

    The bottom (pardon the pun) line is that I have to prepare for something like that, so it’s not an easy thing to do on a whim.


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