Finding a boyfriend…

Random, not-so-random thought:

I am tempted to find a boyfriend on the side.

But I wonder how self-destructive that would be.


24 thoughts on “Finding a boyfriend…”

  1. I encourage you to be open with you mate, you don’t need a complete train wreck in your life. I know I told you about when I met my wife, I was married to another and the one thing I regret is not being honest. You are not the type that could use or hurt any one intentually, you will beat yourself up over it, so think about this a little more …. just saying

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  2. In my own experience it was beautiful, until he broke my heart. My partner was gracious with forgiveness when I came clean. I learned a lot about myself, but I still feel stuck and unhappy at home most days. Please think carefully. Better to go out on your own and learn to love yourself. Then at least you will be free to welcome another’s love when it come to you.

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  3. Apoligies of this sounds harsh, but you have been there, done that and regretted it. The longing for a lover is a sign that your current relationship is not going well. Getting a lover has never helped a relationship. So either end it for good, or stick with it. But don’t go around cheating as that is not going to solve your problems. If anything, it will make them worse.

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  4. It is nice to fantasize about the perfect lover on the side…but in reality, its not what you think its going to be. Nothing comes with no strings attached and don’t forget about your integrity.

    I cheated on my first husband with my second husband and I regret it to this day. No one deserves to be lied to and played for the fool.Be the best person you can be…whatever that means to you. You won’t regret it. ❤

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